My boyfriend told me that his fourth grade teacher told him that he should never use an exclamation point unless he wanted it to sound like he was screaming. Similarly, an English teacher of mine, the same one who played us Beatles songs on his worn out guitar and encouraged "floating free writes," told us never to use more than one exclamation point per story. In other words, our teachers have bred us to use our better judgment with our more profound punctuation; we should not exclaim too much.
While reading a Sarah Manguso story today, one of her short little ones that make you do an internal laugh and then wonder why you are laughing because it wasn't really funny but more just accurate about life, an exclamation point popped up out of nowhere and made me jump. What delight there was in seeing that excitement, that thrilling line-dot combination, in the most unexpected of paragraphs! I grew giddy just looking at it. I remembered what my teachers had said, how they had warned us, and wondered if Miss Manguso had ever received similar advice. I secretly hoped that she had, and that she had gone against it with the kind of confidence and authority that I know she must have in order to write stories so small and punchy that they're much like exclamation points themselves.